Most people say they are going to quite smoking or go on a diet. I want to pledge that I will make an extra effort to learn Japanese. I've already committed myself to signing up with several teaching sites.
http://www.japanesepod101.com/
http://www.iknow.co.jp/
http://www.thejapanesepage.com/
And I've made friends with a couple of people who have learned the language or at least in their 4Th year in studying it; so they can correct me and encourage my learning.
I had thought, maybe one day I could become a JET teacher in Japan - but those dreams are getting dashed as it seems I am getting older and they most likely would like people who are more educated and younger with more energy.
My mom has plans to take one more family trip back to Japan within the next 5 years - so I want to prepare and learn more than I had back when I visited back in 1988. I also want to rekindle some friends I made there back then, just would have to find out where they moved to and their new addresses and contact information.
Currently I am refreshing my Katakana and Hiragana and will progress later on with Kanji (the pictographic characters that is seen in Chinese).
きょうはちよとさむいですよ。
じゃね
Friday, January 23, 2009
Learning the language; the New Years Resolution.
Posted by Brian S at Friday, January 23, 2009 2 comments
Labels: education
Thursday, January 8, 2009
No last minute package.
Akemashite Omedetou Gozaimasu! (Happy New Year 2009)
Well wanted to send a quick post stating that we have not heard from Aya since after her return in Japan, all but one phone call and an email stating that she made it and was trying to adjust back to life in Okinawa after her return.
She had promised my youngest daughter some gifts from Japan - I only figured she was going to send them around Christmas time as she did enjoy Christmas in America. My youngest specificaly asked for Japanese Erasers (made to look like images of Japanese foods and dishes).
Well needless to say, the package never arrived.
I don't know why, but I still felt dismayed - but it was to be expected I guess.
Hope any of you, who has plans for hosting a student. May you get one who can appreciate the time spent with and for them.
Regards,
Brian
Posted by Brian S at Thursday, January 08, 2009 0 comments
Labels: holiday
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
My Final Thoughts as a host dad.
Sorry this is a late post - but was relaxing over this past Summer, school has started for the children and things are going back to normal.
The exchange year came to a close.
- false claims were made about sexual advances
- stolen merchandise like jewelry, money, items from the host homes
- leaving the home without permission
- skipping school to hang with friends
- complete communication breakdown from host family to student
Also we’ve heard horror stories of families;
- Hatred and lewd comments from host kids toward the student quits (presumed jealousy)
- Stealing from the host kids bankrolls
- True claims about sexual advance, which brings a whole other international consequence thing into the picture.
- Students forced to be a live in baby-sitter
- Students basically imprisoned and unable to go anywhere
Believe me we weighed the pros and cons and read through the letters from students to try and narrow them down as soon as they became available.
This also made my wife even more upset and was waiting week to week to see if she would come up with one.
Parting note: Cleaning up items she left behind for trash, we found some Christmas gifts, Birthday gifts and some Origami my daughter made for her to take as a keep sake - all set aside for trash pick up. Talk about the last nail in the coffin - my youngest was hurt after seeing that.
- She also didn't send a birthday card on my youngest's birthday nor the little eraser's (Cute erasers in the shape of Japanese food items) she promised to send her upon her return.
Posted by Brian S at Tuesday, September 02, 2008 1 comments
Monday, June 2, 2008
Graduation Day at last!
For her it was a sad day because she now doesn't get to see the friends she had made in school. Her circle of friends isn't as large as some of the other exchange students in the organization. Most of it is attributed to how receptive she was to making new friends - most of who approached her, instead of her reaching out to them.
As I've stated before - we encouraged her to meet some of my daughters friends, but somehow there was no real connection and she shied away from hanging with them. I don't believe she gave it much of a try to be honest, she had already in her mind who she wanted to befriend.
Posted by Brian S at Monday, June 02, 2008 2 comments
Labels: education, family, mental stress, uncertainty
Monday, May 12, 2008
Bright lights, big city...indeed!
Well we finally did it. We booked a trip to NYC and even decided to spend one night there.
It was little hectic as we drove down to New Haven, CT to catch a train (Metro-North) into the city during a week-day. I purchased the tickets ahead of time and recommend it in case it gets busy. I purchased off-peak tickets to save a bit with the whole family.
My goal was to get to see the Grand Central Station – as it’s been depicted in many movies: The Day After Tomorrow and most recently I AM LEGEND or at least the Times Square part was.
You can’t go to the city without at least taking in a Broadway play if you hadn’t seen one. We truly wanted to see WICKED but unfortunately it’s usually a sell out and I wasn’t able to obtain tickets for the booked day.
We took a family vote and the next best choice we saw was Phantom of the Opera.
As tourists we choose the All Classic New York Sightseeing choice by double-decker bus (open top). We could not have chose a better week in New York weather wise it was 70-75 both days and the evening was also perfect.
Lots of walking around Times Square day and night (especially was awesome) all lit up.
Places we actually stopped were: Battery Park, Liberty Island (we were too late and the crowd was incredible to reach Ellis Island), Ground Zero (under heavy construction), Strawberry Fields in Central Park, The Dakota Building and of course our Hotel the Beacon.
The bus ride took a large chunk of our time because it was a long loop and its supposed to be hop on and hop off, well the problem is the buses that come around every 30 minutes are also pretty full so good luck hopping on.
Aya was excited and tired all wrapped in one – I’ve never been to Tokyo but I can only imagine its similar or maybe more jam packed with people.
Key Points and opinions:
Train ride to NYC was about 1.2 hours- Grand Central was pretty open in the center and had some nice ceiling paintings, believe it to be Astrological.
Bus ride is only nice on the 2nd deck and if there is room.- Taxi rides were crazy and a disadvantage with 5 people as they can only take 4 (so double fare) two cabs.
- Lots of walking is tiring (no wonder New Yorkers are fairly thin)
- Time Square is awesome looking at night
- NYC Planet Hollywood restaurant isn’t all that (food and service poor)
- NYC Hard Rock Café food and service was really good, we enjoyed the singer/band item contributions displayed (have been to quite a few HR and this is one of the better ones)
- To see the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Isle I would recommend going first thing, as we somehow with the slow buses didn’t make it in time, even though we pre-purchased our tickets. So we only got to see the Statue and even then you have to buy another ticket for the museum to get to go into the base (only) as now there are restrictions to entering the statue. Also the security check point prior to the ferry was annoying.
- Ground Zero was just a big hole with lots of construction, not sure what I expected but thought there would be more to it like a shrine. There is a tribute place but they were charging 10 bucks a head (that’s not fair)
- Strawberry Fields – was nice but smaller than I imagined
- The Dakota Building was nice: My wife is a big Beatles Fan and basically mourned at the site of where John was shot. Ironically we spoke of wanting to meet Yoko as we had heard she still lives there. Lo and behold she comes walking up the side walk and passed us! We didn’t realize it until it was too late – hat and dark sun-glasses. My wife was shocked and felt blessed to come close to someone that close to John Lennon.
- We missed our opportunity to go in the Ladies Shopping district along 5th Ave and Macy’s multi-floor store. (maybe lucky for me)
- The M&M Store was nice (the girls loved it)
- The Virgin Music store was 3 floors of cool music items and books.
- The Phantom of the Opera was amazing (I was surprised as I figured it to be an old outdated play and boring). Little hard to understand the Opera songs, though in English.
- Empire State Building: Long lines, security check points and long wait. (Will never try it again until I want to kill 2-3 hours) our problem was we tried to squeeze it in before the train home and was stuck with the clock ticking. Another series of unfortunate events was we opted to take the last 6 stories up to the deck because the elevator line was going to be delayed. [needless to say we are out of shape – we were completely out of breath] – it gave you an appreciation of what the NYC Firefighters had to do while entering the Trade Towers stairs for rescue.
- McDonald’s (world’s largest eat-in) was awesome in lighted marquee but reminded me of a Night Club because they played videos projected on every wall.
All-in-all it was a fun experience up to the very end, when we were offered a Limo ride to the train station which seemed to be normal. They too want to make money anyway they can and was better than grabbing two taxis to split up 5 people.
When all was said and done, we arrived home somewhere around 3 a.m. Woot!
Posted by Brian S at Monday, May 12, 2008 3 comments
Labels: family, sightseeing, vacation
Friday, March 21, 2008
Mom's old stomping ground
Here's link to a town in Japan where I visited and intend on visiting again within in the next 5 to 8 years.
http://www.city.miyakonojo.miyazaki.jp/shisei/kokusaikouryu/english/sightseeing_english.jsp
I know its a random post, but wanted to get it out there.
Posted by Brian S at Friday, March 21, 2008 0 comments
Labels: sightseeing, vacation
Opening the lines of communication.
Posted by Brian S at Friday, March 21, 2008 1 comments
Labels: education, English practice, family, mental stress, uncertainty
"I don't know, where ima gonna go when..."
Well I neglected to mention how the volcano turned out.
This project thought I have to admit wasn't 100% crafted by her and I, but the whole making of it was fun.
The kit similar to the one pictured below had a mold and stand. Then we had to mix this cement like compound, if I recall it was plaster of paris. We had to allow it to dry for more than 24 hours after we poured it. Then she painted it and my wife creatively added coconut as grass around the base, dyed green.
We did several dry runs as we were debating whether to use vinegar, club soda and baking soda or diet soda and Menthos.
The kit did come with small tablets of baking soda colored with red dye - but in our independent tests did not fizz much.
She brought the set to school and she did a run for the students and teachers before that night, when the parents were to observe. Well she came that afternoon a little upset because somehow the inner container had a hole and when she poured in the club soda in and added the tablets it leaked all out the bottom weakening the structure of the plaster and nearly destroyed other kids projects on the table.
So I arrived a little that night in preparation to remedy this disaster.
I inserted some tin foil into the mouth after forming a make-shift funnel that would collect the soda and she could add the baking soda at will. This worked out okay if fizzed and spilled over into a shallow dish pan we brought.
I am sure it was no where near the explosion I was hoping to achieve like on the Brady Bunch episode, but it was a big hit with the kids and the teachers.
To make a child happy saving the day is a small parentla victory.
Posted by Brian S at Friday, March 21, 2008 0 comments
Labels: education, interesting, mental stress
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Family gathering went well.
The family cook-in went well. All who originally planned on attending came and we included our neighbors as well for an impromptu sit down for a "Taste of Japan", minus the Sushi.
We started with the Gyoza making - my mom had two kinds of Gyoza skins one made in Japan and the other package had more but made in China. We involved at least 4 people in actual folding of the skin around mom's secret ingredients. The only ones my mom was able to buy that were Japanese skins which were actually for a dish called Shumai and were square, but they worked the same.
Posted by Brian S at Tuesday, March 18, 2008 1 comments
Thursday, March 6, 2008
Cook Fest 2008!
Getting excited for a family gathering sponsored by me. Although I can attribute it to viewing some of the Blogs I read that show foods.
My mother plans on coming over and preparing some Japanese dishes - I requested 'Gyoza', cooked her way. The recipe she whips up is something she learned when in Japan and she slightly modified it by adding a little more (quality) meat.
There are several different ways to make these and recently I've learned they serve them in some US establishments and call them Pot-Stickers.
The recipe seen is pretty much typical, though mom's is better.
We are going to take this opportunity to have Aya cook some food items she brought with her and some that her mom sends in some of the packages she sends about one every two months.
It's funny, as these packages are sort of what her mom must think as emergency relief packages. They contain teenage magazines, books, comfort foods and snacks to remind her of home and to lessen what kind of homesickness she may have.
I am sure there will be more samplings and have invited my sister who rarely has the time to visit us and the girls.
One of our neighbors recently allowed me to utilize his snow blower since basically to be cheap I shoveled through most of the storms we've had. So in turn I invited him and his wife over on the scheduled Saturday.
My favorite soup is Miso Soup:
Posted by Brian S at Thursday, March 06, 2008 1 comments